Have you ever seen someone you were very attracted to, that's from a different culture, or ethnic background? Hell, let's be honest about it, we're all adults. Ladies and Gentlemen, boys and girls, Miss and Mister. Yes! Presidents, Dukes, Princesses, Heiresses, Kings, Queens, the Elite, the Esteemed and the like...

Have you ever been hypnotically attracted to someone you've passed by once or twice, wishing that some magical shit'll happened that'll force you and the other individual into a situation together with no escape, and the only choice the two of you had in common was the situation, and a conversation in English?

Do you have any idea how many people could've found, or just passed by that special someone they think they'll never find? Simply because, you disqualify yourself. Believing, that you're not qualified to approach them.

Why is that so? Because mankind's nature is naturally curious, just like we're our own worst critics. But, when we all stop being worried or apprehensive about the answer you'll get, or what someone else thinks or says about you... Will be the day that individuals stop being afraid to ask, or less apprehensive about dating, or hooking up due to the fact that, they were a different race?

Like I said we're all adults, so let's find another reason you or someone you know may have been hesitant trying to come up with the right words to say to someone who could have insecurities about their appearance, although that covers a plethora of reasonable doubts. Appearance could be a person's weight, height, too short, too tall, too slim, too wide, not wide enough, not thin enough, too pretty for you, too ugly for you.

Now we're getting somewhere, by hitting the nail on the head, because there's no elephant in the room just adults.

Let's examine the whole coin and look on the flip side of things. Simply because, most of us are afraid of rejection, which causes us to be a bit apprehensive. Nevertheless, our apprehensive redundancies, individual's dumb-ass biases, the nonsense excuses, and some are; our own fictitious hurdles.

Now ask yourselves, what if all this time our redundancies have been hindering us from the truth of reality... Some of you may be thinking, HOW? What does that have to do with dating?

Okay, the flip side of the coin is that, there are plenty of individual people in the world who love, want, been looking for, and can't wait to find an individual with my, our, or your specific particulars. Meaning, whatever redundancies you may have the truth is that, we're all adults. Some people like plump, juicy, teddy bears, she bears, slim, petite, skinny and bones, tall, husky, black only, white only, only redheads, nerdy, thugged out, with glasses, aliens, martians, no teeth, no hair, little people, disabled, rich, poor, gamers, dog owners, cat owners, or even someone like me.

Here's the thing, I'm actually one of those individuals that has a specific preference. Although, I broke my preference and it ended up in an, I just burned up, and wasted 10 years of my life I cannot get the fuck back ass divorce, knowing I would've been happier buying a damn puppy (SMH).

So, why did I do it? Because, it was hard locating my "YEAH BABY" preference, who preferred me for me, because my preference would be the opposite of me.

Now, I've been with my preference who's been my opposite for the last 20 years, I'm still happier today like I was the 1st day we met. I didn't have just 1 preference I had 2. One was that the person had to be younger, and the other attraction was that the person couldn't have the same ethnic background as I have. I've always said to my inner self, how can a child grow up prejudiced or with racism if they were a part of both indifferences.

Basically, after the first 5 years I was full of bliss, but I also had a thought which led to an idea. I was contemplating every time I saw people who were opposite of each other together as couples, I could see that they appeared to be very happy, or in love. Then out of the blue that old cliche hit me like a ton of bricks, OPPOSITES ATTRACT.

As they say, one thought led to another and it all boiled down to me trying to help others who are attracted to the opposite, and TOADS was born.

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